{"id":302,"date":"2012-01-03T00:17:37","date_gmt":"2012-01-02T22:17:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/zahraowens.com\/?p=302"},"modified":"2012-02-17T01:08:59","modified_gmt":"2012-02-16T23:08:59","slug":"it-gets-better-and-why-this-never-gets-old","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zahraowens.com\/?p=302","title":{"rendered":"It Gets Better and why this never gets old"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;m preaching to the choir when I say that there&#8217;s no such thing as too much support for our kids\/teenagers.<BR><br \/>\nKids are incredibly cruel and bullying seems to be the local sport at absolutely every school these days.<BR><br \/>\nBut was it so different when we were in high school?<BR><br \/>\n30 years ago, I barely survived middle school. Even then, any excuse was good enough to be thrown at the mercy of the bullies. And even then, teachers looked the other way.<BR><BR><\/p>\n<p>Maybe this is why, when Dan Savage and Terry Miller posted the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=7IcVyvg2Qlo\" target=\"_blank\">first It Gets Better video<\/a>, it made such an impact on me, it spawned a story: <a href=\"https:\/\/zahraowens.com\/?page_id=111#family\" title=\"Short stories\" target=\"_blank\">You Can&#8217;t Choose Your Family<\/a><BR><br \/>\nDid it end there? No way!<BR><BR><br \/>\nOn January 11th, with your help, I&#8217;m going to support this project. $1,20 dollars will be donated for every single copy sold of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dreamspinnerpress.com\/store\/product_info.php?products_id=2715\" target=\"_blank\">You Can Choose Your Friends<\/a>, the prequel to <a href=\"https:\/\/zahraowens.com\/?page_id=111#family\" title=\"Short stories\" target=\"_blank\">You Can&#8217;t Choose Your Family<\/a>. This is what I would make from this story, but now it&#8217;s going to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.itgetsbetter.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">ItGetsBetter.org<\/a>. This is my pledge. Help me keep it, big time! <BR><BR><br \/>\nWatch this space for the countdown and Be The Change.<BR><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/zahraowens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/9m.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/zahraowens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/9m-150x150.gif\" alt=\"\" title=\"9m\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-303\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zahraowens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/9m-150x150.gif 150w, https:\/\/zahraowens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/9m-300x300.gif 300w, https:\/\/zahraowens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/9m.gif 443w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a> days to go!<\/p>\n<p><script type=\"text\/JavaScript\">var TFN='';var TFA='';var TFI='0';var TFL='0';var tf_RetServer=\"rt.trafficfacts.com\";var tf_SiteId=\"3d7d44b6821a3e2df1d249d352d08cd0e4a23bca\";var tf_ScrServer=document.location.protocol+\"\/\/rt.trafficfacts.com\/tf.php?k=3d7d44b6821a3e2df1d249d352d08cd0e4a23bca;c=s;v=5\";document.write(unescape('%3Cscript type=\"text\/JavaScript\" src=\"'+tf_ScrServer+'\">%3C\/script>'));<\/script><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/rt.trafficfacts.com\/ns.php?k=3d7d44b6821a3e2df1d249d352d08cd0e4a23bca\" height=\"1\" width=\"1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/noscript><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;m preaching to the choir when I say that there&#8217;s no such thing as too much support for our kids\/teenagers. 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